chinese metaphysics and family

something happened recently to my elder brother’s family that made me feel very uncomfortable. his second son, married and had two children, recently broke off relationship with him and the mother, due to some deep seated misunderstanding.

I am very sad because of one of the skills I have is face reading. when his second son was growing up, noticed a mianxiang sign in his ear that showed his rebellious character, in chinese called 反骨.

I know that to tell my elder brother and his wife would fall on deaf ear because they love this child dearly. so I kept this secret to myself.

but now things had exploded in my brother’s face, and its too late to say anything.

on hindsight, should I have told him……but then would that change the ending? I just wonder………